I remember a children’s song from long ago and the lyrics went something like this:
Sing! Sing a song!
Sing out loud, sing out strong!
Don’t worry that it’s not good enough
for anyone else to hear.
Just sing! Sing a song!
The message in this song is one we teach our children- be yourself, live your life the way you want and don’t worry what other’s judgments may be.
We teach our children this but are we living and modeling this message?
At church, a few months ago, I happened to sit in front of a young woman visiting our congregation. When it came time for the first hymn, she burst into song. She had a loud, bold and beautiful voice.
I noticed, however, she did not hit every note perfectly in tune. I might not have ever noticed the notes that were out of tune had she not been singing out “loud and strong.”
I caught myself starting to judge her for being so loud and not “getting it right.” I quickly noticed my judgment and I decided, instead, to relish in all the notes this woman sang.
After the service, I turned to her and told her what a beautiful voice she had. She apologized for not hitting every note and stated she had not sung in quite a while and was not familiar with the hymns.
I realized that this woman could have hidden her gift because she was afraid of not being perfect or getting it right. She could have been stuck in her fear of judgment, ridicule or scorn. Instead, she chose to sing out loud.
How many of us live our lives hiding our gifts because we’re afraid of what others will think? And if we’re truly honest , who’s judgment is it that’s holding us back from what we want?
It’s usually us. And, truth be told, most people are so caught up in worrying about what others are thinking about them, they don’t have time to worry about anyone else!
So what’s the song you’d like to sing out loud, sing out strong?! Let’s start singing and not worry if it’s good enough to sing, let’s just sing!